A popular debate has risen based off the suggestion from the Journal of the American Medical Association (JAMA) that obese children should be put into foster care so they can get the dietary help they need to reduce their weight and protect them from long term health problems caused by obesity. This is not a new idea, another article in Pediatrics mentioned similar ideas in 2009. To me the main argument of this debate comes down to “who’s responsible?”
There is no argument that weight gain in children and adolescents has grown to epic proportions. The focus of the article centered around a 3 year old that weighed 90 lbs, and by 12 years of age grew to 400 lbs. To most parents there is no debate on whether or not this child was obese. A closer look at the family showed that the parents had some physical disabilities and financial difficulties. Other examples were teenagers who weighed four and five hundred pounds, all of them with health problems that stemmed from their weight.
Are parents responsible for having children that are overweight? Absolutely, just as responsible as they are for their children’s behavior in every other area. Despite arguments about thyroid problems, slow metabolisms, depression, hormone imbalances and evil marketing ploys by fast food chains, until we can absorb calories through the air, obesity is a behavioral choice. And parents are responsible for their children’s behavior. Do I agree that the government should step in and use foster care to help children get back on the right track and make better diet choices? Absolutely not.
This is one more area that government does not need to take responsibility. Any effort to help overweight children should be addressed in education, at school and in some cases possibly with social services making house calls to help parents make better choices as well. As we learned with the 90 lb. 3 year old there might be some home problems that need to be addressed before a solution to the child’s weight problem can be helped. What we don’t need is the government monitoring our children with the threat of taking them away. Not only is this dangerously leading to other areas of restrictions, but at some point there will and has to be a magic number that this happens with. What number is that? And who makes that decision? What about children who are too thin?
One argument for putting children into foster care homes is child abuse. There are obvious dangers to letting children become obese, and some of those dangers may not affect the child until they are an adult. In some cases, there may be more abuse than just lack of diet control. But in cases where poor food choices are the reason for obesity, there is no intent of abuse. Education and follow up should be adequate.
It’s time to take responsibility for our own health choices, and those of our children. I do not want to see that responsibility in the government’s hands either taken forcibly or in apathy. Teach children and families to make healthy decisions and hold them accountable for their actions, but let them have the responsibility.
Please give me your opinions and ideas! If I’m wrong, show me!